Sunday, November 25, 2007

Miss you Sweetheart

A typical college going guy gets excited when he gets a friend of the opposite sex..The excitement stays on for 4-5 weeks..all those unlimited sms offers will be made full use of for the first few days,then that first call which lasts for 10-15 minutes..then gosh!!!!those never ending calls the whole night..i guess the other person will be updated with everything including stuff like"ouch i got a chilli in my breakfast".."huh a mosquito bit me".."i am taking bath but its ok we can talk,i have my cell with me""..hats off to the patience guys and gals...then whatever a guy says will be "soooooooo sweet" " so cuteeeeeeee" "u r so understanding" .yeah ppl some serious stuff..yes we do develop a bond and an affinity to each other, we care for each other,we understand their problems,try to cheer each other up,motivate and encourage each other..Yeah the guy and the girl start feeling that they are special in each others life..But the same excitement can't last forever..the smses become shorter and the number reduces..the calls become shorter..the girl wants to talk something serious,it becomes boring for the guy..the girl feels the guy has changed but the guy justifies he hasn't changed a bit..i guess the guys think girls are too emotional only when the relationship gets older..sometimes they get so self centered that they feel she can wait and other things are important,less do they know that the girl liked him cos he had time for her..come on guys they do understand your busy schedule(sometime they don't)..guys don't miss them when they are with them..cos the usual routine of calls.."good morning" "goodnight"msgs are there..guys don't understand tht they also would have got used to it..but when the girl isn't there,guys miss these things and realize the importance of it..its not tht they don't treasure it..its just tht its not in guy's nature to express it or think about it..But we guys do like those things..we too miss you..Miss you my girl..

2 comments:

Santosh Anand said...

I think u miss ur Girl or missed her a lot during the days u published this post, there is an tinge of sadness in ur post, which says that u mite have had a fight or two once in a while, Its all ok Boss,, fights tell that U care for her and vice versa...

Anyway just speak to her, Im sure she will understand as even she is a Human being, has all the feelings that you have. Oneday Im sure u will I am right...

One one thing is eternal in this world .... LOVE!!!

incredible said...

Better late than never ( I am talking abt u realizing the girl's importance)