As my first post goes Change is eternal and the only thing we can do is adapt to the change quickly..
I am not sure if i will be able to put my thoughts into words but i will try..
In life we come across lots and lots of ppl..some friends..some acquaintances..some competitors..and many more..but do all of them be the same throughout..NO..cos every moment everything changes..just like time everything changes so there is no valid point in a person expecting all or any of these ppl to be the same throughout..I will just tell an example..On my first day at PU i had a fight with one of the guys and the grudge continued till we passed out of college..There wasn't a single moment where we could tolerate each other but after about 3 years he found my profile on orkut and we started chatting with each other as if we were the closest of buddies in college and missed each other so with time everything changes..
You don't feel much if a person who is not in good terms with you changes for good..You just feel surprised..But its not the same when a person close to you changes..Initially you start missing the person and start feeling alone..miss all the moments you spent with him/her..You start anticipating him/her to change back to normal every moment..You try to be passive about the changes for few days then you try to indicate it to the other person..then you accept the change and change yourself accordingly..but if the person after a while changes back to how he/she was before also the excitement and the intimacy of the relationship seldom relives....
Whatever..
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